Social upbringing has it that your lover is supposed to be your shrink, too. I am very serious, and expect the same. I'm nice and would like to think okay seeking but I am definitely self-conscious.
I spend a lot of time thinking about I actually don't want to sound bad here, but I do spend a lot of time thinking about why those great ladies, always get matched with those guys who wouldn't treat them nearly as good as I would.
46 yr old, swm, career and goals, with teenage son.